Meet my cousin, Matt

Ok, so this next picture is one that I wanted to post a long time ago but didn’t because I’m not wearing my false teeth!  I’m over that now and feel ready to share it!  It’s a shame I wasn’t wearing my teeth but at the time I didn’t think about it and it turned out to be another favourite of mine.  This picture was taken on the 5th July 2012 which was the day we walked from Roncesvalles.  I particularly like it because it is a ‘selfie’ which just captures the moment perfectly.  We were upbeat and happy just walking along down this long path into the hills ahead.  If you followed my blog from the beginning you will know that without this man next to me, I probably wouldn’t have walked the Camino at all.  He helped me to plan for, travel to, and more importantly, to ENJOY to Camino.

He now runs an Albergue himself, having walked the Camino on several occasions.  I haven’t visited, but look forward to one day strolling in!  If any of you are planning a future Pilgrimage along the Camino Frances I would like to encourage you to visit him and his partner in their Albergue.  Albergue Santa Maria Magdalena, is in  Vega de Valcarce, an ideal location to rest before you begin the climb to O’cebreiro the next day!

 

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Some photos…. Looking back.

In my previous post, I mentioned that I may upload some pictures of what I’ve been up to since the camino.  Well, I’ve decided that I will actually re-visit the camino by uploading pictures and writing a little about each one.  I’m not going to go so far as to look back through my book to see the location of each picture – but if anybody has a specific picture they want to know the location of I will try to help!  I may end up posting pictures that you’ve already seen, so I apologise in advance if I do!  This will be done over a period of days, weeks, or whatever… I’m in no rush, especially as the blog has sat redundant for so long – but I will eventually get to Santiago and beyond!

Right, first up is this horrible picture of me arriving in St Jean Pied De Port.

I was tired and my anxiety levels were through the roof!  I had no idea what to expect when we got to the Albergue and was anxious about sleeping/eating with strangers.

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When we got to the Albergue, L’esprit Du Chemin, This lovely Hospitalero helped me to relax.  Continue reading

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Anybody out there…..?!

The last few days I have had an urge… an urge that I haven’t had in a long time.  To write.  But to write what, what shall I write?  Well, I thought that as I haven’t posted here in so long, yet I still think of the Camino every day, why not come back on here and write a little update about what path my life has taken since returning from that ‘Journey’.  I don’t know if anybody still follows this blog, perhaps not after so long.  But it doesn’t matter really.

The journey never really ended once I returned to the UK.  Not Really.  It just changed direction a few times, and the mode of transport is different!

When I returned to England I had nowhere to live, but I’m lucky enough to have one of the best friends a man can have.  His name is Keith.  I have known him since I was 13 years old, and he has always been very loyal to me.  He gave me somewhere to stay… It was only supposed to be for a short while until I sorted something out, but I ended up staying until last July!  He never wanted anything, and allowed me to come and go as I pleased – I will always be very grateful for both his friendship, and his kindness.  While I was staying at his I got myself a job driving lorries for a short time.  It didn’t last long because once January (2013) came there were less parcels being sent and so I was no longer needed.  I was then out of work for three months during which, I underwent surgery to repair the two hernia’s that you may remember me being concerned about prior to walking the Camino, until my brother helped me to get a job where he works.

It was a good job, not like anything I’d done before.  I was going out to care homes, hospices and peoples houses servicing medical equipment.  I met all kinds of people from all backgrounds, and each with some form of illness or disability.  It was a real eye opener – I had no idea of the true suffering that some people experience each and every day, silently, behind closed doors.  I was on less money than I had earned at previous jobs, but I didn’t mind.  This job was satisfying as I felt like I was actually doing something worth while. It made me grateful for what I have and reminded me to be happy and enjoy each day!

Unfortunately this job was also cut short when, last summer, I was diagnosed with cancer.  Me?  Are you sure?

So began a whole other journey which I really wasn’t expecting!  I had X-rays, scans, blood tests, weird and wonderful tests of all kinds! Eventually ( I say eventually but it was only a matter of about a month) I underwent surgery, got an infection in the wound,  and as soon as I’d recovered I then had a ride on the Chemo train!  Not very pleasant at all!  The effects of Chemotherapy are pretty severe and you have to remind yourself that the alternative would be worse…!

While all that was going on with the Cancer treatment, I moved into a flat of my own.  My Dad, and Brothers got everything in and set up for me while I was in hospital (bed, cooker etc) so that after my operation I could convalesce in the privacy of my own (new!) home.  Various family members offered me financial support while I was recovering for which I am very grateful.  I won’t name them but they know who they are… Thank you if you ever read this.

Following my recovery, I managed to get a driving job locally last November.  All was going well but I have continued to suffer with severe pain since my surgery last Summer and it has now got to the stage where I can not work.  I am gutted.  Life can be cruel sometimes, but I keep thinking back to things I saw and learnt on the camino, and to the people I met while working for the healthcare company.  I remember that there are others far worse off than myself and this helps me to remain strong.  I am trying to stay positive and hope that the surgeons find a long term solution for me soon…. I am back to see the oncology consultant at the end of this month and am also being referred to other surgeons to rule out other possible causes of the pain.  I am hopeful that if it can’t be fixed, then it can be managed more effectively so as to allow me to take a job that I will be able to keep!!  It’s a very frustrating situation to be in….

And just briefly, I will mention my anxiety issues as some of you may remember that I am agoraphobic and be wondering how that is… Well, it started to play me up again not long after returning to England.  I went to see a professional in that field every week for a few months in the Summer and they gave me a new diagnosis.  They said that I do indeed suffer from agoraphobia, but that the root cause of this was the fact that I suffer from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder which had previously gone undiagnosed and therefore untreated.  they said that by hiding my problems for so long due to being ashamed of myself, that I had in fact made it worse for myself.  So, if you’re reading this and you suffer from something similar – don’t hide it.  There is no shame in suffering from mental health problems.  The sooner you get help the sooner you will be happy!!  I am now getting the support that I need and am learning to enjoy life and be more positive.. I am trying to turn my fears into positive energy, rather than fear something, I am letting myself experience the situation and learn from it.  It’s a long road and hasn’t been easy with all the distractions along the way but I think there is light at the end of the tunnel!!

That’s all for now, I don’t know if I will feel the urge to write again… That has cured it for now at least!!  I may return to write again soon, or I may leave it a while again….  I never did post any pictures of my trike did I…. Perhaps I should upload some photos from the last year and a half……..

 

 

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Back to reality – an update.

I’ve been back home for two weeks now. Well, when I say home, I mean back in England. I don’t actually have a place of my own at the moment so am staying at a friends flat while I get back on my feet. It was fantastic to arrive home to see my two daughters, however a big big part of me wishes I was still on the camino. I wear my shell necklace everyday to remind myself of what an adventure I had, and also that there is more to life. I have bought myself a trike, rather than a car and yesterday started a new job driving trucks for a parcel company. I’m hoping to be able to save up to do another camino before finding somewhere to live; priorities and all that..!

I didn’t know what to do with the blog, or how to end it… But then I thought I’d just keep writing it every now and then. Although I have finished the camino, I believe that the real journey has just begun, and as such I will write here with what I am doing. I intend on going to visit people that I met on the camino, and I also intend on walking more! Perhaps some camping trips to Scotland or something…. But keep watching – the camino de Santiago hasn’t seen the last of me!

Pictures of the trike to follow!

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The walk into Santiago

My final day of walking was a long one. We left Arzúa relatively late, at around 8.30am after breakfast in a cafe close to the albergue that we had stayed in. We had planned to walk to Arca o Pino and then to Santiago the next day, however word got round pretty early on that all of the albergues had been booked up in advance (by the dreaded ‘tourist pilgrims’) and there were no beds left! So we then looked at the next place only the map with an albergue which seemed to be only 5kms from Santiago…. So we decided to push for Santiago in one day – 38kms, our longest walk yet!

It was quite a strange day with mixed emotions. We didn’t really talk a lot for the last 10 kms or so and walked apart for some of it. I was excited to be near to my goal, happy with what I have personally achieved, but sad that it will soon be over and I will have to return to normality.

As we approached Santiago the heavens opened! The first real rain since I began my Camino and I soon found out that my ponch wasn’t as waterproof as I’d hoped! So, soaking wet and a little annoyed we walked into Santiago. I didnt really feel anything as we walked through the city, just sadness that it was over…. As we arrived in the main square outside Santiago cathedral though I was smacked in the face with lots of different emotions all in one go! I cried. I didn’t care that people were watching me and some tourists were taking pictures of me. I just stood there I front of the cathedral and cried. Not because I was sad, but because I was so overwhelmed by what I had just achieved. While I was walking the Camino I never really stopped to think about it but when I got to the cathedral it all suddenly hit me. From being so scared that I nearly didn’t get on the plane, to now standing here in a foreign country having made some amazing friends from different parts of the world. I’m not scared to walk down the street anymore, and I don’t mind talking to strangers. I can walk into a shop without anyone to hold my hand and I feel like having walked the Camino, having actually done it… I can do anything!!!

Once I had stopped crying and sorted myself out for a few photos we headed into the cathedral. It’s massive! I was pleased that we had arrived so late (7pm) as it meant that there weren’t many people about.

Pilgrims are no longer allowed to place their hand in the tree of Jesse, the central column of the Door of Glory Portico de Gloria. I stood for a while and looked at it, imagining the thousands upon thousands who had come before me. I then went to the High Altar, up the stairs and hugged the apostle, rested my head against his and had a quiet word in his ear… Finally, I went down the steps to the crypt and the reliquary chapel under the alter. I don’t know why but I just stared at the casket containing the relics of the Great Saint. I don’t even remember now what I was thinking about. I just stood there. Then I climbed the steps to the right and left the cathedral.

In the evening I went out in the city and had some well earned drinks with friends that I had made along the way. I had intended to walk the next day to Muxia and then finisterra but when I woke up I suddenly changed my mind. Instead I took a bus straight to finisterra and have been here since, camping on a beach with a bunch of hippies! I intend on finishing the camino properly though and will not stay here for much longer. Some have been here for a very long time and while it’s a beautiful place to be, I don’t want to get stuck here! That would be too easy!

I don’t know when I will leave or where I will go. Perhaps walk from here to Muxia, or even get a bus back to Santiago and then walk from there to Muxia and back to finisterra…. Or even go somewhere else and return another day to finish it. I really don’t know at the moment what I want to do or where I want to go. I thought that once I finish the Camino I would know exactly what I want, but I am more unsure now than I have ever been. I really don’t want this to end…

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My Compostela

I don’t feel like writing right at this moment, but just wanted to share this picture of me outside the cathedral having only just arrived!

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And this one of me with my Compostela!

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Thank you to all who have supported me and to those who have followed my blog! It is not finished yet though! I will be back to write more later today or in a few days…

Hasta Luego!

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Santiago!!!!

Arrived in Santiago de compostela late yesterday having walked 38km on my last day! Feel amazing! Pictures and further update to follow….. I made it!!!!

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